Should You be Friends with Your Ex?

Should You be Friends with Your Ex?

In the process of finding Mr. Right, we will often encounter Mr. Lazy, Mr. Liar, Mr. Nice Guy, Mr. Dreamer, Mr. Player and Mr. Kingdom-cum.  When exiting these relationships, the question may arise should we remain friends.  Now, before divulging more into this topic, I must say that I truly believe that men and women can be friends; however, it has to be mutually understood! It has to be understood that it is and will only be a friendship.

Read More

The Dilemma of Dating a Childless and Educated Single Black Men

The Dilemma of Dating a Childless and Educated Single Black Men

Consequently, they dress themselves an air of arrogance and pretentiousness. And there is no better example, than a meet and greet I had with a single childless and educated black man. We will call him Mike.  Mike had a job, his own apartment, a bachelor’s degree, was well traveled and could carry an intellectually stimulating conversation.  On first impressions and on paper, he was great, until he started to talk.  Mike told me that he only desired “fit” women and that black women were under the misunderstanding that black men only liked thick women.  He stated, “I like women with less than 20% body fat, pretty, smart, trustworthy, and understanding of my career…because my job is very important and will come first.”

Read More