In talking to one of my more mature friends, she suggested that every girl have different men for different functions. She stated, “It is too difficult to find one man, who you can do all things with. So you find different men to do different things with.” I thought this was an interesting concept and after thinking about it a little more closely I realized that it was an excellent idea. Until you find Mr. Right, you mind as well find Mr. (s) in the mean time.
“It is too difficult to find one man, who you can do all things with. So you find different men to do different things with.”
I suggest that every girl should have at least four different functional men. The first is Mr. Fun. This is the guy that you can let you hair down with and just have fun. No judgments just good old fashion fun. Do not put any limits on it, just have fun. You only live once.
The second guy is Mr. Intellect. This is the guy that stimulates your mind. He is the man you can talk politics with, visit museums with and attend seminars with. He is the guy, who will challenge you to think; yet, you also feel free to explore new and different ideas with.
The third guy is Mr. Empathic. This is the guy that will listen to you complain without offering any help. He is there as a shoulder to lean on with a non-judgmental attitude. He is the guy, who will provide real male advice when needed.
The forth guy is Mr. Make Me Smile. Yep, every girl needs a good laugh and some one to cheer her up. So make sure you keep a man around who can put a smile on your face and remind you that life is not that serious.
While most women want a man with all of the above qualities, it is okay to date different men with each individual quality. It is difficult finding a man with the right mix of the qualities you want and it is even more difficult getting the relationship to work. So until then relax and enjoy the company of those you already have around you.
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